They are a guided online dating site which means you fill out an extensive personality profile, then your matches are found based on your personality and profile settings. You cannot search for members as with other sites.
Clients often come to me having had a string of short-lived romances, starting one immediatley after another. Others have been single for a while and worry that their thoughtful, considerate approach might be interpreted as disinterest. When playing it cool backfires A common tactic when playing it cool is to not reply back to a text or WhatsApp on the same day. Rather than trying to keep his interest by playing hard to get, cultivate a genuinely varied and busy life.